Ask Anything on Yik Yak | Although it didn't work out between us, the last guy i was talking to really raised the bar for me.. he drove 4 hours just to see me. Now anyone who's not willing to drive 40 minutes, they don't pass. Is this reasonable?

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Although it didn't work out between us, the last guy i was talking to really raised the bar for me.. he drove 4 hours just to see me. Now anyone who's not willing to drive 40 minutes, they don't pass. Is this reasonable?

Anonymous 4w

4 hours is crazy, especially in this economy

Anonymous 4w

Yes, perfectly reasonable. Less than an hour is nothing

Anonymous 4w

Like on the first date?

Anonymous

#1 4w

Yea

Anonymous

OP 4w

I do think that’s unreasonable. They don’t even know you girl you are a little icon on their phone. If anything, I wouldn’t go out with a guy who would drive 4 hours to see me because that’s a lot of pressure for a first date and it seems sort of desperate

Anonymous

#1 4w

no one pressured anyone to do anything 😆 besides you didn’t ask the context of the story 🤷‍♀️

Anonymous

OP 4w

I’m sorry, I’m not trying to diss your previous encounter, I was just trying to demonstrate that I think about it differently than you and why I think it’s unreasonable to EXPECT.

Anonymous

#3 4w

Obviously itlll limit your options, but it's worth it no matter what