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I’ve been dating this guy for a month. We get along so well, basically already act like bf/gf. I asked him what we were and he said he needs more time. Now I’m just so self conscious like why? Should I ask him about it or when he’ll be ready??
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Anonymous 17h

Give him another month if he hasn’t decided block him bc he’s wasting your time and leading you on honestly

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Anonymous 15h

Kind of depends what you want. Do you want a long term relationship, or a situation ship? I personally date for marriage so at this point I would have a conversation about where we stand, and if his views on this are different than mine than I will no longer date this guy

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Anonymous 18h

Might be a situationship situation

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Anonymous 18h

I would ask him about it

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Anonymous 17h

Leave lol he doesn’t respect you. He’s getting relationship benefits without any effort/commitment… focus on yourself 🙏

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Anonymous 16h

Ask him directly. That will tell you if it’s even worth it to wait. Maybe he’s getting over someone or trying to get better mentally?

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Anonymous 16h

Personally, it took me a little bit (4 months) to fully realize that i wanted to be in the relationship. I made it very clear that it wasnt something that she was doing. Throughout the entire process i kept telling her exactly what was on my mind. So, im just playing the devils advocate and that sometimes not everything is easy to understand. But at the same time… people do just suck sometimes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15h

What made you realize you wanted a relationship or what made you want to wait? Also how did she take it when you told her that?

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