
Keep in mind that “Gentle” in the word “gentleman” actually means “best” or “highest” not the modern English definition of “soft/caring”. So a “gentleman”. Literally “best/highest man” would be someone who maximally embodies the highest traits and virtues. So the classical definition of gentleman would be “ a man who embodies in his character the 7 cardinal virtues as well as possibly a set of social virtues besides.”