Honestly same, I had to do multiple surgeries and basically my body is a little fucked which sent me to a depression where I got overweight and now it’s even more fucked and so i don’t even try to like ask a girl out or anything cause I already know she will be disgusted by my appearance.
Pcos sucks and will make the challenge harder but you can do it. And it’s not just about how other people see you, you will feel better, be healthier and live a longer life. Cut out the snacking, focus on clean high protein foods. And exercise will burn calories, raise your metabolism, and increase insulin sensitivity (which is one of the downsides of pcos). It is difficult but absolutely achievable