Ask Anything on Yik Yak | Me and my girlfriend just tried to have our first time together. We are both virgins. We both struggled a lot and realized we wouldn’t get off so we just called it quits. I feel humiliated and like I wasn’t good enough. How can I giver her a good first?

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Me and my girlfriend just tried to have our first time together. We are both virgins. We both struggled a lot and realized we wouldn’t get off so we just called it quits. I feel humiliated and like I wasn’t good enough. How can I giver her a good first?

Anonymous 3d

Try again. Almost no one has an awesome experience the first time

Anonymous 3d

Communicate during it, like the whole thing. Talk and be close like u don't gotta be all hot and shit to get off for ur first yk, make it about learning yourselves and being intimate emotionally and psychically and you might just go with the flow (this is a personal answer don't attack me with “erm actually”’s)

Anonymous 3d

Sex isn’t like porn Just keep trying and communicating what you do and don’t like

Anonymous 2d

That’s a really common experience, you’re not alone.

Anonymous 2d

Same thing happened to me. Took like 5 attempts.

Anonymous 2d

You’re probably both making it into this monumental thing. Keep it casual, or you’ll get scared/pressured. Do some research together if you think that would help

Anonymous

#5 2d

Long story short, I couldn’t get hard. Not even a semi. She had more experience and understood so we carried on lightheartedly. We did other stuff, but penetration took some time. Looking back, I was too into my own head and psyched myself out.

Anonymous

lassie 2d

Adding: just be naked with each other. Watching tv, in bed, sleeping, etc. let your bodies get aquatinted. Touch each other, make out - do a number of other things. Real sex is nothing like porn. It’s so much more psychological than you’d think