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How do I tell this guy I don’t like him playing with my hair when we kiss? Without making it weird
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Anonymous 1d

You won't make it weird to tell him! Just tell him as if he's respectful, he will respect your preferences. If he refuses entirely or says he understands but continues to do it, that'd be very wrong of him. If you want, you could mention it's nothing he's doing in particular with that you dislike and that you dislike it in general, but you never have to say that unless you wish to. Saying it's not for you and you want him to stop alone is totally fine and you should feel welcome to say it

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Anonymous 1d

Give him suggestions of what to do instead

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

like what?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Where do you want him to touch you? Waist, back, thigh, cheeks all good options it’s just what feels good to you

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