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Need advice. My bf cheated on me and I found out a few months ago. Recently decided to give him another chance because he made a huge effort. Found out he lied abt little things that happened. Do I text the girl and ask her side of the story?
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Anonymous 23h

couldn't hurt but honestly you should just break up. he clearly isn't an honest guy

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Anonymous 22h

In my experience, if he was brazen enough to cheat on you once, he will continue cheating in the future.

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Anonymous 23h

Yes. The lies add up

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Anonymous 21h

No. Stay out of this. Trust me cheaters are insanely narcissistic and possessive. I gave my cheating ex a second chance once and when I finally left due to the emotional manipulation… I was stalked and harassed by her and her new bf for over a year. It will be very hard but the best thing you can do is turn away and never look back. You deserve someone who won’t put their human desires over their respect for you. Never forget that you’re not alone either and that there are people who can help.

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Anonymous 21h

You protect your peace and you break up with him trust me

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Anonymous 18h

why give him another chance in the first place

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Anonymous 17h

yes but break up

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Anonymous 22h

Sounds like you get some free passes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

No this is hoe mentality. You should never subjugate yourself to becoming a cheater just because you were cheated on. Your cheating partner doesn’t respect you and wants you to have less respect in yourself. By sleeping with others, you’re doing exactly what the cheater wants you to do. Don’t diminish your own value for revenge, it’s never worth it and ALWAYS feeds into the problem you’re trying to resolve.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

^^^ this

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