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I’ve been told by men I’ve gotten to know better that I was, pretty, had a great personality etc. but what could be a reason guys don’t walk up to me? Like they don’t come up to me and ask for my number but they’re fine in close range 😭
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Anonymous 7w

Bc cold approaches are outdated and tend to just risk making women nervous in public, so lots of guys just don’t do it, regardless of the girl’s appearance.

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Anonymous 7w

Why not just walk up to someone and do it yourself? Why is this smth only men can do? It’s like proposals. Sure women can bend the knee but it doesn’t happen often. Right? Usually the guy is the one to propose. But it doesn’t have to be that way.

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Anonymous 7w

So I guess we got answer this question again. Please thank your fellow women for this. When most young ones started bitching about being approached. So now to keep down the bitching most men won't approach anymore. Personally I want to be approached. But it's become a thing of the past

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

How do you go about it then?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Go about what?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Talking to girls you find attractive? Like getting their number or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Sorry just saw this. My answer is, I don’t. Every girl I’ve dated, I met just living life, not seeking them out or anything. Met my ex at a party and my current gf in class. I would just tend to form relationships naturally and not actively try to get into one. The less you focus on trying to date someone, the more likely you are to find someone. Plus you’re much happier not worrying about that stuff. But yeah I’ve never asked anyone out, only been asked so I just go with the flow

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I don’t. I actively avoid interacting with women

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