
Phobias are hard to describe. If I see certain kinds of worms or even movement that reminds me of them it’s like my body is being repelled by a physical force. It’s such a fundamental revulsion that I have to force myself to even think straight, and I only have a mild phobia. If he feels that way about spiders (as many do) just take this as your opportunity to be a knight in shining armor and handle it.