
I know it’s a real thing, and I have sympathy for it. I just don’t have sympathy for using it to guilt people into sex, and unfortunately enough men do that often enough that the reaction to people bringing it up is a whole lot less sympathetic than you might deserve. Which I understand isn’t your fault, but atp it’s just built into me to roll my eyes and suggest a trip to the bathroom to get off. It’s a solvable issue, yanno?