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I wish i was objectively hot. Do objectively hot ppl wish they were normal or even ugly like me, or do they just accept their self-image?

Anonymous 6w

How do you make people wanna hang with you if you’re not attractive?

Anonymous 6w

I very much doubt they wish that. Yeah I hear you though. And a lot of people who say this. Life is probably much easier that way and much more fun. Although I wonder if it makes you a different person in any way, whether good or bad

Anonymous 6w

I am objectively hot. I like it. On occasion I feel sorry for the way others are treated, especially the short dudes. But then I just get a ton of attention from hoes and "good girls" and "married women" and think to myself... whatever, the world is fucked up might as well get my dick sucked

Anonymous 6w

I think people see me as conventionally attractive and I sometimes wish I didn’t look how I do because of the assumptions what come with it. I work at a plant shop with a bunch of other queer people (I’m queer) and they all assumed I was a straight republican. I also have some learning disabilities and because of that feel kinship with other neurodivergent people and pretty frequently LD people don’t trust me to be actually accepting of them because of the way I look.

Anonymous 6w

i am conventionally attractive and sometimes i think there’s nothing very unique about my appearance, so other people who might be uglier by societies standards get more attention because they catch your eye

Anonymous

#2 6w

I’m having the same issues right now

Anonymous

#3 6w

How do I fix not being treated nicely as others? I am ugly af

Anonymous

#2 6w

You a man or a woman?

Anonymous

#3 6w

Man

Anonymous

#3 6w

Well for either a man or a woman this will help: Food rules; 1. Eat food 2. Not much 3. Mostly vegetables

Anonymous

#3 6w

Hygiene: 1. Pick a haircut/style and fix at least 1/month 2. Moisturize your face, body and hair 1/week 3. Clip and file nails 1/month 4. Shower with soap daily. Scrub crevices, feet, and back with an abrasive 5. Brush and floss at least daily

Anonymous

#2 6w

Man specific: 1. Daily pushups increasing weekly 2. Daily plank increasing weekly 3. Daily squats increasing weekly If you are very weak; start with 1 pushup, 5 second plank, 1 squat a day for a week. Then increase all that by 1, 5sec, 1 every week. It'll work. You'll be stronger in 1 month. Look better in 2 months. Look great in 5 months

Anonymous

#3 6w

Last category; Style: Important to do last because good clothes should fit/flatter your body shape. Fix body first. Then 1. Clothes that fit 2. Clothes you maintain (no stains, rips, color issues) 3. Clothes that match. Belt = shoes. Shit != pants 4. Style that is/was cool in last 20 years. You can copy a magazine if you need to

Anonymous

#3 6w

This wont fix genetic issue with your facial features, bone structure across your body (ie: spine), hair, skin, etc... But it'll max you out. That's the best you can hope for.

Anonymous

#3 6w

If you're not 6'2" - 6'8", maxed out, socially intelligent, charming, funny, and flirtatious... you don't really have a chance at smashing super hot, non-trashy, women regularly But all you need to do is be maxed out and have good intentions to have a good chance to find love. Tbh, good intentions is like 40% of finding love anyway. Being maxed out is like 20% rest is luck

Anonymous

#3 6w

Hope this helps!

Anonymous

#4 6w

I personally think it’s less to do with me being “hot” and more to do with me being white. I think a lot of white girls who look like me tend to be pretty cruel to people, especially people who I feel kinship with: gay people, people with disabilities and people of color. Although it makes me feel happy when new friends realized I’m cool and genuine and safe it makes me sad that the archetype of person that I look like so often makes people feel uncomfortable and unwanted.

Anonymous

#4 6w

But more to your point I think self acceptance comes with time. I don’t find people who look like me attractive but I know that’s the cultural norm in America and I try to be confident knowing I have a good heart and head and a strong moral compass. I think the best thing we can all do is think about what makes us shine and amplify that. If you are artsy you can embellish your clothes or do cool makeup, if you are a quite writer go to writers groups and share your work, hotness is very mental

Anonymous

#2 6w

I think it’s less to do with attractiveness and more to do with energy. You have to be open and kind and silly and share honestly that you are trying to make new friends. Invite people to something or try to come back to the same place at the same time and establish friendships at a place of mutual interest