Anonymous #1 21h

shut up

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Anonymous #2 21h

Why. They asked a question that requires context to answer and didn’t provide context.

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Anonymous #1 21h

you're trying to justify abusive behavior and victim blame

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Anonymous #2 21h

I am not. If OP did something objectively bad, it might’ve been valid to yell. Are you saying you’ve never yelled at anyone before?

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Anonymous #1 16h

the context was someone had told me that he slept with this one girl while we were talking and I knew that he had done something with her but he told me it wasn’t having sex. i went to confront him without raising my voice once and he flipped out on me. he was asking who told me that and I didn’t tell him because it was one of my friends boyfriends and she told me he wanted to stay anonymous. he threatened that he would hurt himself if I didn’t tell him and then once I did he stormed off on me.

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Anonymous OP 16h

Then yeah you should leave him, why is that even a question

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Anonymous #1 16h

he made me feel like it was my fault for not trusting him and i was valuing what other people were saying about me rather than what he told me himself

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Anonymous OP 15h

you're not even dating this guy. do not put up with this.

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Anonymous #2 13h

i just ended things and i will keep it that way

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Anonymous OP 12h

👏 good for you for drawing a line. it's hard to do.

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