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my ex unblocks me on snap every few months so i’ll add him and we talk for like a day or two and then he blows up on me or is like “idk if we should talk”. if he doesn’t wanna talk why does he keep unblocking me knowing i’ll eventually see and add him
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Anonymous 20h

Or, crazy idea…block him. That way whatever he does you won’t see.

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Anonymous 20h

just stop adding him

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Anonymous 20h

and like ik i just should stop adding him when i see he’s unblocked me. there’s just smth that like pulls me towards him if i see he’s unblocked me adding him to talk to him is all i can think about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

yeah i don’t think im going to this time. i saw he unblocked me a few weeks ago, idk why i wanna reach out so bad, but ive held strong and haven’t added him again

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

honestly, you’re right. i will. but still like is he just teasing and wants attention or like does he still think about me and wants me to reach out and that’s why he unblocks me? either way, blocking him rn! i’m done w it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

he is officially blocked! no more adding him and having this back and forth thing that’s literally been going on for 5 years

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Block him and be done with it. If you’d like to talk in detail about it feel free to DM me. You clearly have some type of attachment issue. As to where it stems from is a deeper discussion.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

This is an example of cognitive dissonance with a tendency towards choice-supportive bias. Basically you want your past decisions to engage with him to be validated even though you know it didn’t work. This creates an internal conflict in regards to what you want your next decision to be.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

that makes sense. i keep thinking about it, but i did block him and plan on keeping him blocked. i think its best for both of us

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