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I’m a freshman in college and just got a boyfriend, but I was raped a year ago and have ptsd and it’s been very triggering. How do I communicate this to him? I feel like I’m dirty and ruined when I acknowledge that this happened to me
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Anonymous 5w

hopefully he would have the emotional maturity to handle a conversation about it, but if he can't, that's a big red flag anyway...

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Anonymous 5w

Honesty is the best up front-

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Anonymous 5w

Poor girl my heart breaks for you. Are you deep into the relationship or is it rather new? That may determine if you want to wait to say anything.

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Anonymous 5w

What am I supposed to do

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Scroll past if you got nothing good to say. If you don’t got the answer you weren’t being asked for.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

It’s been a little over a week

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I would wait then and see if the relationship goes anywhere

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Ok thank makes sense, thank you!

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