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I make $720k a year and can’t find a girlfriend. I only work, don’t go out, and a good time to me is a quiet evening at home. Thinking about doing foreign marriage service to simplify things but I feel like that’s giving up. What should I do? Please help.
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Anonymous 12w

Pay my student loans and I’ll marry you 😭

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Anonymous 12w

Easy to say, hard to do. I put so much of my life into my career, i fear it’s all i have of value. I’m funny and decent looking, but all in all corporate sense. I’m looking into hobbies this weekend but nothing actually interests me.

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Anonymous 12w

You should be a well-rounded human that values more in life than work and stops making fake-humble posts that are obviously a guise to brag about your money in an attempt to get women to give you attention

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Anonymous 12w

Sounds boring tbh

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Anonymous 12w

Fair. I’m only framing that way because they’re conventional sought out features. What would you suggest I do to meet people?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

It’s neither a guise or a brag. I’m wealthy, I work very hard, and I get how that can be seen as pro - that I can just have and do what I want. But I’m incomplete and I’m incapable of attracting women. As much money as I have, because I don’t signal it in stereotypical ways (fancy cars, clothes, jewelry, etc) it is no benefit in the one area where conventionally it should. And what it takes to get that money - relentless dedication, no social life, a ‘corporate personality’ - is a big con.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Well if you do actually make that much money (which I’m skeptical of) then my advice is to save enough money to where you could live decently off of dividends ($5-10M) and then quit your career and become interesting.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Becoming interesting is what I’m after. I assume you’re a woman. What makes someone interesting to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Not sure why you assume I’m a woman but I can still comment on what makes someone interesting - having passions and interests that they pursue in earnest regardless of whether they’ll receive any benefit from doing so.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

What’s the point of having money if you don’t use it to do anything fun

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