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So I’m 9 weeks pregnant is it wrong for me to want my bf to say happy Mother’s Day? It’s not even like I wanna do anything today I just wanted to hear it
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Anonymous 2d

Not wrong to want it. Would be wrong if you’re mad if he doesn’t say it

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Anonymous 2d

Yeah but expectations without communication are unfair. Sure you may want him to just think that way naturally but he might not. Just let him know and he might surprise you with more

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Anonymous 2d

my fiancé is pregnant as well and I said it. Not because she is a mother yet, but because I know that it would wake her feel good. Pregnancy causes so many emotions that just saying it has no downside.

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Anonymous 2d

I’m 25 weeks and everyone around me has mixed opinions about it, it’s just nice to feel recognized so I totally get it! Happy Mother’s Day!!

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Anonymous 2d

“Happy Mother-Under-Construction Day!”

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Anonymous 2d

No not at all you’re going to be a mother and the future and even just being pregnant is a challenge it would be a nice acknowledgment

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Anonymous 2d

“bf” 🥀

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Anonymous 2d

Happy Mother’s Day!

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Anonymous 2d

absolutely not. you deserve it. you’re doing all the work

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Anonymous 2d

I feel like the appropriate response is “happy soon to be Mother’s Day”

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Anonymous 2d

Thank you guys and to the person who said happy Mother’s Day💗I told him I just wanted to feel good, I’m not getting an abortion, nd I just wanted to feel good like #11 said

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Anonymous 2d

It’s not wrong at all!! You are already a momma!! Have an amazing day today 💛

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Anonymous 2d

No I feel like he should definitely say it like your carrying his child

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Anonymous 2d

Is not wrong

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Anonymous 2d

Prolly should say it

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Anonymous 1d

If my girl was pregnant I’d be so fricken happy and be all gushy like happy Mother’s Day my future baby momma

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Anonymous 2d

Nope u deserve it anyways its not that deep to be thinking about logistics of whether or not u actually count as a mother and i would DEFINITELY want appreciation

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Anonymous 2d

Lmao you’re not even a mother yet. You haven’t experienced motherhood besides being pregnant so why would you expect to hear it?

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Anonymous 2d

L bf

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Anonymous 1d

Absolutely not, you are a mother and deserve celebration

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Anonymous 2d

how old are you?

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Anonymous 1d

I’m a day late. But happy Mother’s Day. This reminds me of the saying a woman becomes a mom when she finds out she’s pregnant but a dad isn’t born until the baby is. Here’s to hoping your bf steps up in the long run.

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Anonymous 1d

LEAVE THAT MAN WTF

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Anonymous 2d

Oh some of you are weirdos in here, anyways if he cares to make your feelings valid he would you just have to let him; my fiancé did wish me a happy Mother’s Day as we are 27 weeks and we’ve experienced a loss. Every moment is precious.

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Anonymous 2d

It’s mother’s day. Not pregnant with a bastard day :)

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Anonymous 2d

9 weeks may be a bit too soon to start calling yourself a “mother”. Your fetus is about the size of a grape or olive. Definitely a bad line to draw.

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Anonymous 1d

You ain’t no mother yet

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Anonymous 1d

Happy Mother’s Day. Today was my due date but she’s still in there. My boyfriend celebrated me. I reported all of the rude comments 🩷

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Anonymous 2d

Shut up

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Anonymous 2d

its not that deep

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Anonymous 2d

Lowk he’s growing ur child. A little acknowledgment is far from unreasonable

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Anonymous 2d

It depends are you gonna abortion?

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Anonymous 2d

Can I make u pregnant again?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

As a guy, he’s definitely got more important things on his mind such as the Roman Empire

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 2d

that part😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 2d

will be

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2d

Update i just told my mom abt this post and she said yes you are a mom, the mothers day when ur pregnant and the first year u have a baby are the most important mothers days cuz its when you are new to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 2d

Wtf 😭 🤚

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 2d

😭😭😭

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Anonymous 2d

Shiii, an interesting point you got there.

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 2d

Yeah, I like that sound of that. But unless she's into memes, I feel like she would hate the literal ness of that🤷

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Anonymous 2d

Actually in my opinion that wouldn’t matter. I think it’s the effort that a mom makes counts. Miscarriage, stillbirth, etc they all made an attempt to be a mom and therefore I wished all my friends who had that a great day

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Anonymous 2d

I have seen post after post on insta stories where mothers post their premature babies and say “momma will never forget you” because it’s real to them. You gonna say “oh actually you can’t celebrate that cause it died” ????

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 2d

Nah I don’t think not wearing a condom and not being on birth control is something that’s an achievement. Mother’s Day is about being a mother. That can be a mom, a step mom, mother in law etc, those who raise and spend time with their kid. There’s no effort in your body not making a baby that lives. Mother’s Day starts the first diaper you change.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 2d

100% your not a mom you’re a late term abortion.

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 2d

I’m assuming you’ve never carried a baby? It takes a HUGE toll on your body, and a million different things can happen and you won’t know until you go through it. Also, pretty sure mothers who keep the child prepare a room, buy clothes, toys, and all kinds of child stuff in preparation so the effort is still there?? If you didn’t want the baby you would not want to hear happy Mother’s Day

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 2d

I like that!

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 1d

Ehhh, I see where your coming from. But it's definetly important to find out how much that affected them. Because you don't want to tell a woman that really wanted to eb a mother that is deeply hurt from the loss, "Happy mothers day" because that would...

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Anonymous replying to -> 5n34ky801 1d

come off as insanely insensitive given her circumstances and emotional mood

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 1d

Send this comment to your mother and I guarantee you she would be so fucking ashamed of the trash you’ve become

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 1d

This! Just the simple happy soon to be mommas day meant the world to me rather than the people who told me I’m not a mom so I can’t be celebrated

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m #11 🥹. I have done so much to make her feel loved and take the load off. I know she appreciates it and it’s so important to let these moms know they are loved!

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Anonymous replying to -> 5n34ky801 1d

One of my friends was the one to tell me that she really appreciates it so I always ask my newer friends organically if they wanna hear it. If I’m not sure, I just tell them I’m thinking about them and hope they have a great day. I just want people to be more mindful when they say “stillborns don’t count” because countless women tell me otherwise

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 1d

i’m sorry but yall acting like it’s christmas or something😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 1d

Lol I came to see if somebody had clocked that

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 1d

Yeah, that sounds like a pretty good way to go about it. I'm moreso thinking of just saying it to acquaintances. Like if you know that person would be cool about it, obviously you should tell them

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 1d

That’s what you should’ve been🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #36 1d

*to be

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 1d

What

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 1d

Unfortunately he is the baby daddy she kind needs him 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> 5n34ky801 1d

mother to be. pretty obvious what i was saying.

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 1d

She is a mother, not to be and she obviously also feels like one thus deserves celebration

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Anonymous replying to -> #36 1d

Being a mother isn’t about pregnancy but rather wanting a child and being given the opportunity to have one to love. She loves her child regardless of if it’s in her or if she’d given birth already thus is a mother

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Anonymous 1d

Your definition denies any mother who may have lost her child from anything ranging from miscarriage to stillbirth from being a mother, so it’s just factually incorrect

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Anonymous replying to -> #36 1d

a fetus is not a baby. maybe that’s just my pro choice viewpoint but i think this is something that’s largely up to personal interpretation. it’s more correct to say she’s a mom to be tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 1d

GAH DAMN CU! Someone woke up and chose violence 🫪🫪🤯

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 1d

Tbf, you’re WAY AHEAD than OP

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

she doesn’t need shit. she’s got her own back and so do we. that man ain’t shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 1d

men can’t grow babies

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

you must be a male

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Anonymous replying to -> #36 1d

See, now that's what I'm saying. I feel like it isn't right to be mad at someone for throwing out the technical definition of what it means. Like another person said, it's not celebration of child rearing, so you can't fault the BF for wanting to say it...

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Anonymous replying to -> 5n34ky801 1d

to someone pregnant

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 1d

Damn, you must work with the CIA with how pro Single mom you are. If your curious as to what that means, I'm talking about how kids born in a single parent household statistically are are worse off then kids in a nuclear family

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Anonymous replying to -> #42 1d

Wow, that's quite the insane Double standard. Glad my first time hearing it was on yikyak 😂

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