I enjoy platonic relationships with my female friends, messing around with 0 feelings attached. Does that make me a bad guy? Or does it make me look bad?
As long as you’re clear about your intentions, communicating and not leading them on than no that doesn’t make you bad. Though if you can’t be friends with a girl without having sex with one then that’s a little worrisome.
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Anonymous8w
The two words platonic and messing around shouldn't be in the same sentence. So yeah you're a bad guy and it makes you look bad
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Anonymous#18w
No intentions. Boundaries made, no feelings at all. I guess that makes me a really nice friend:)
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AnonymousOP8w
Intentions are that you don’t want a relationship and just want sex. Those are your intentions.
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Anonymous#18w
I don’t want sex
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AnonymousOP8w
Then what do you want
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Anonymous#18w
Nothing. Just fun relationship with friends
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AnonymousOP8w
Oh well you wording of “messing around” made that a big confusing
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Anonymous#18w
Sorry😆😅
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Anonymous#28w
If that’s how you think that means
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AnonymousOP8w
Well if you're fucking around with them like making out or doing sexual things with them and you know you're only friends that's fucked up. You're playing with people's emotions
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Anonymous#28w
It does have 2 different meanings.
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AnonymousOP8w
Ok then no shit so would you want some playing with your emotions?
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Anonymous#28w
Omg did you miss the whole 0 feelings attached or something? No need to sexualize everything you come in contact with
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AnonymousOP8w
Are you? Are you acting like their bf?
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AnonymousOP8w
OMG you're the asshat with zero feelings. That doesn't mean the other person isn't which is on them
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Anonymous#28w
No. Why would I want to do that if 0 feelings is mutual. I shouldn’t have to spell it out.
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AnonymousOP8w
Yeah ok. All that is just a dangerous game. You can still tell them it's like that and they still catch feelings