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Is it on me (f) if I platonically slept in the same bed with one of my friends (f) for one night and now they barely talk to me? (she knows I swing both ways)
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Anonymous 8w

No that’s not on you at all. Did she say that was the reason?

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Anonymous 8w

No that’s on her. I’m bi and I’ve said some wildly explicit flirty shit to my friends, and none of them have reacted like that. If we’re platonic, we’re platonic, they know not to make it weird and so it’s not weird

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Anonymous 8w

Nothing happened, right?

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Anonymous 8w

Anything happen

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 8w

No I’ve been cold shouldered, but ever since that night specifically, she’s barely spoken to me and it’s very vague and dry like she wants the conversation to just end. And it wasn’t like this before that night either.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

I’m sorry that really sucks. Maybe confronting her about it could help clear the air?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Nothing happened, she slept on one side of the bed, I slept on the other, basically a third person could’ve laid in the middle

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

then I'm as clueless as you are, that's weird. maybe you were moaning her name in your sleep lmao

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