Anonymous #1 14w

when a woman asks for the bare minimun here you incels come with “wha do you bring to the table” and thats exactly why you are insufferable

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Anonymous #2 14w

Lol, incels. I have a 30+ body count and I have been in a long term relationship for years. Just because I punctured your bubble of self regard, you assume women don’t want me. It’s actually the opposite.

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Anonymous #2 14w

Honestly, as a woman in this kind of relationship I think this is a valid ask and something I worked on when healing. I wrote out everything I wanted in a partner (like forced myself to think of 80+ things) and then reflected on those. If I want that out of a partner what would that partner probably want out of me? I want someone that travels and speaks another language so I should be that for them too!

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Anonymous #4 14w

Of course the “what do you bring to the table” is often used to enforce gender roles, yes, but if you reflect on it in the way of what can you bring into a relationship that would attract this kind of person it’s a much better tool! Some other examples- I want someone who appreciates the small things, is handy/mechanically inclined etc. so what might they want from me in return? I try and journal and work on gratitude and have dedicated some time to learning good skills like sewing or fixing my

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Anonymous #4 14w

Car, learning how to be financially stable etc. To OP I would recommend this, imagine your perfect partner, then imagine what they might want for their perfect partner and work to be that!

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Anonymous #5 14w

So you don’t want a partner you want your mother.

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Anonymous #4 14w

No I want a partner. I’ll handle the rest

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Anonymous #4 14w

Youre tripping lmao, they are both saying that want a partner who takes care of them

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Anonymous #6 14w

I disagree. OP described the personality and healed aspects of a future partner. #5 described what they can do to serve them, therefore I don’t believe it’s described the same

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Anonymous #4 14w

This.

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