
Bro its not even that, sometimes the problem itself is the lack of trust and the consistent stream of doubt projected by constantly asking “are we gonna break up”. It turns a healthy relationship into work, tiring work, when every little issue results in asking that question of course im gonna break up. Relationships are about trust and asking that signals that you dont trust your partner to not break up with you. It signals insecurity instead of love
Ok reading this actually has me quite intrigued, my current girlfriend is genuinely the first relationship ive felt where we are compatible in such a fundamental level and after my last i thought i was just done with relationships. Im curious about your story and dating history that brings you to this position if you would like to share