Anonymous #11 11w

step 1, stop opening porn sites or pages

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Anonymous #7 11w

Same

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Anonymous #7 11w

read smut instead. there’s good stuff on here

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Anonymous #23 11w

wait low key i’m not addicted to porn but i wanna try that

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Anonymous #21 11w

i personally contribute to the community on here. you’ll like it :)

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Anonymous #23 11w

The askanything community…?

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Anonymous #21 11w

no… the smut community 😋

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Anonymous #23 11w

oh right on

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Anonymous #23 11w

Gang that still rots your brain. Still equally bad for you. still sets insane standards and ruins your relationship with the opposite gender

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Anonymous #25 11w

it’s a start to get off of porn. it’s just a lot of people talking about their fantasies and real experiences. i don’t see the problem

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Anonymous #25 11w

so i disagree. also, you literally just end up reading a lot. seems like a win

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Anonymous #25 11w

my motivation is that the porn industry is very exploitative. i don’t have high libido to begin with so i’m not really driven by sex or physical intimacy in relationships anyway

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Anonymous #5 11w

And porn is actually demonic

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Anonymous #7 11w

Best advice I have (if Christian) is to love God more than sin. Because a habit of sin is showing that you do not YET love Jesus more than sin. Focus on loving Jesus and you will naturally flee sin. They are opposites. Your body is not your own. But it’s important to give yourself grace. Don’t beat yourself up. Putting yourself on the cross does nothing. We need Jesus to beat lust, without him you cannot do it. If ur not religious, I highly suggest looking to Jesus. He loves you yk.

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Anonymous #7 11w

My advice is to keep yourself occupied. Just always be doing something, even if that's just listening to music or wtvr. Helped me a lot

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Anonymous #23 11w

Smut is still porn

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Anonymous #39 11w

OP is clearly talking about visual media

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Anonymous #7 11w

get some hoes

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Anonymous #6 11w

What helped me was keeping myself busy, don’t ever lay around, when you wake up start your day, when you go to bed, don’t stare at your phone just go to bed

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Anonymous #23 11w

Reading isn’t inherently good. Like nobody thinks reading comic books is good for you. It’s the content that makes reading good for you and smut is closer to comic books then Shakespeare

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Anonymous #28 11w

Ok, calm down

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Anonymous #23 11w

Lol where? The smut section used to have insanely good smut now there isnt any smut there at all

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Anonymous #23 11w

Brooo can u like send it to me or like lmk what ur username is

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Anonymous #45 11w

If you stink take a shower ahh advice

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Anonymous #53 11w

What’s your advice, cut your dick off or some shit

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Anonymous #47 11w

No

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what are you even talking about

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Anonymous #58 11w

Congratulations! I’m 1 hour free!! 🎉

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Anonymous #28 11w

porn is strongly correlated with higher rates of sexual violence perpetrated by those who watch it, and this has been supported by multiple studies. so yes it is demonic and you should say it

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Anonymous #60 11w

Couldn’t the direction be the other way though? People with those inclinations use porn as a release and it actually reduces violence? A pure correlation doesn’t even tell you if there is a causal direction.

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Anonymous #23 11w

Ah yes smut; the vaping of porn.

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Anonymous #25 11w

I think reading comic books can be good for you.

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Anonymous #62 11w

Why am I getting downvoted? It’s statistics not opinion.

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Anonymous #64 11w

Scamming on yikyak is a new type of desperate

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Anonymous #53 11w

This was good advice from him

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Anonymous #62 11w

Ted Bundy attributed most of his homocidal tendencies to his long-time pornography addiction and multiple studies link domestic violence and human trafficking to porn use. Look at some of the most popular categories of porn and tell me you don’t see a connection to violence.

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Anonymous #62 11w

I think it can be, while there has been disgusting people who endure porn, it is not right to think just because someone watches porn it correlates to them being a murder. Your mom has probably seen porn 😂 and I doubt she’s Ted Bundy. 💀💀 all jokes aside if you do struggle with porn this thread offers great advice from other like you!! If not I could tell you what I did.

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Anonymous #67 11w

Because Ted Bundy is such an honest and reasonable person… I am just saying that you don’t know the direction of the linkage. There very much could be a connection to violence; it could be negative. People using it to mitigate violence or perform certain things for mutual enjoyment is just as plausible. Also this ignore that 20% of porn viewers are women and their porn consumption habits screw more violent then me (ifs studies)

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Anonymous #62 11w

It was an interview of him on death row and I can’t see what he had to gain by lying… 😭

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Anonymous #42 11w

I have a hot gf and I still occasionally watch it

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Anonymous #5 11w

also when you look at what's most popular in porn, the undercurrents of sexual violence are more than clear. the stepsister/stepmom category correlates with incest, the "barely legal/teen" category appeals to pedos, and race-focused porn often reinforces racist beliefs. plus it's impossible to ignore just how degrading mainstream porn is towards women. that's not even getting into just how horrible the industry is for actresses, who report sky-high rates of ptsd, drug addiction, and sexual abuse

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Anonymous #60 11w

It’s very true, there’s a lot of illegal practices that go down. You didn’t even mention the working environment that people have to go through in the industry. I get where you’re coming from but those topics aren’t the only ones that people watch so you can’t fully shame it. I fully understand where you’re coming from but I truly believe that you are making assumptions to the general watchers rather than focusing on the dark parts. Women can be addicted to so what would you say to help them?

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A. Who was talking about children? B. It litterally says “the laboratory experiments are criticized as artificial and unrealistic” and marks others as correlational which was the main point of comment. Did you read this? Essentially it is just a summary of disparate problematic studies and normative statements. Nothing really positive (meaning x is proved to be caused by y in population z.) Beyond the lack of value of this summary you still don’t seem to understand that correlation =\= cause.

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Anonymous #23 11w

Smut is not better 😭

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Anonymous #72 11w

it is

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Anonymous #17 11w

It’s literally imagination porn instead of visual porn. Anyone with a porn addiction can easily get hooked on smut.

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Anonymous #72 11w

it doesn’t melt your brain like the visual stimuli

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Anonymous #17 11w

May I ask, do you have any personal experience with porn addiction and smut?

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Anonymous #72 11w

Cause I definitely do. As a woman, I was hooked on porn for 8 years. When I decided to get out of it, I thought reading smut was a way to slowly get away with it. Cause I used to read smut before I discovered porn. Sadly, smut still got me going and still poisoned my brain in terms of how people acted and looked like as well as sex. It’s not better. It’s still affecting your brain. It’s still damaging for how you view yourself and others. Thank you for listening to my Ted Talk

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Anonymous #72 10w

17 never responding says it all.

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Oh I’m in Protestant Pentecostal. I’ve been looking into Orthodox, though

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