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there’s a girl i’ve been friends with for over a year and we’re going on a. group trip to the beach next month should I tell her i’ve been thinking about asking her out or not
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Anonymous 3d

Never tell someone “I like you” or “I have something to tell you”. Signal with body language, create slow burn tension, flirt subtly but have plausible deniability. A lot of attraction goes unspoken, if she likes you back she’ll take the signs and flirt/signal back. If she doesn’t like you back she won’t, but no awkwardness/ruined friendship.

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Anonymous 3d

Not on the trip!!!

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Anonymous 3d

NOOOOOOO

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Anonymous 3d

No! Don’t ruin the trip!

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Anonymous 3d

Nope

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Anonymous 3d

I can’t say it’s good advice, but personally I wouldn’t unless you know that you ca handle rejection and that she can push past awkwardness and won’t just avoid you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2d

but i’m so bad at that kind of thing I only get girls by being incredibly straightforward. we’re already incredibly comfortable with each other and know basically everything about each other. I won’t say it outright but I don’t really know how to start being closer to her physically without it being weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

i’ll test the waters of getting closer during the trip but I won’t say anything that’ll ruin the trip

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