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Girls, what things do guys do on dates that make you feel a spark?
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Anonymous 3w

when me and my boyfriend started dating, he’d always make sure that i was comfortable and wouldn’t let me touch any door lmao 😭 he still does, but one thing that made me really fall in love was how thoughtful he is with everything. on our first date, i remember him asking my friend behind my back what my favorite flower was and got me roses. another thing is when you both talk about what you have in common or similar interests, because to me you’re not only getting a boyfriend, but a bestfriend

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Anonymous 3w

I enjoy when little things are remembered. Noticing something about my features. I enjoy someone who has a strong sense of their self.

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Anonymous 3w

When they don’t try to freak on the first date 😭

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Anonymous 3w

Arson, petty theft, street racing

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Anonymous 3w

Blowtorch

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 3w

What can I do on a first date though when I can’t do those things cause we haven’t met before?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Well are you both texting?

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 3w

Yes but not super in depth she is studying for a few big tests

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ah okay. Honestly it’s better to get to know someone in person. Find out her favorite type of food and or atmosphere. Some people really just love a dive bar, others enjoy really good food. Find a band that is playing at a bar/restaurant and see if it is something she’d enjoy too. If she loves Halloween, take her to pick out pumpkins and enjoy the farm.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

If she's been busy studying for a big test she must be stressed. I would say being mindful and thoughtful that she's taking time out of her busy schedule to get to know you will make her feel appreciated. Maybe get flowers and write a note that says hope you look at these while studying and smile. smthn like that

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