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Why don’t men approach women anymore? At least in a respectful way

Anonymous 14w

I am afraid of women.

Anonymous 14w

Because when you talk to them they act like you aren’t worthy to be breathing the same air as them. Or they treat you like a fuckin alien from outer space and pretend to be confused

Anonymous 14w

I started dating my so after we were friends for a semester so maybe try to be approachable and friendly before expecting a relationship. Then you can also find out if you genuinely like them instead of wasting both of your time in a dead situationship

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Anonymous 14w

Pepper spray

Anonymous 14w

Because women have complained so much at being approached at all that men don't do it anymore at all. And they're also next level lazy too. But thank the women that fucked it up for the other women that wants to be approached

Anonymous 14w

I do it. Though usually most of the time she’s either taken or isn’t interested. That’s okay though because at least you tried🤷‍♂️

Anonymous 14w

From my experience it’s because they’re taken 🤡 lmaoo

Anonymous 14w

Notice how all the comments are similar? Hmmm

Anonymous 14w

i get approached multiple times everytime i leave the house i think it really depends where you’re at tbh

Anonymous 14w

I’m not as friendly as I use too and possibly nerves amd I’m not much of their type so there’s a few reasons

Anonymous 14w

Scary

Anonymous 14w

Women have made me very sad. I have dreams of a pleasant life ... but the world has changed. It's not a nice place at all for people seeking love and partnership... I'm sad, alone, and just trying everyday to learn to be ok with that... It's getting gradually easier... but all the man hate. The savage destructive divorces, I'm just sadly walking away

Anonymous 14w

Women are calling the shots. So what do you want a man to do where it's not offensive to you? Cause you've taken a shit and piss on the normal social norms of approaching a woman. Everything's creepy to you women now

Anonymous 14w

Respect has only ever gotten me friendship. I stopped approaching instead of being disrespectful

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Anonymous 14w

It damn sure was because it is women's fault. That's the truth. They're crying about don't talk to me while I'm working out. Don't talk to me while I'm with my friends. Don't talk to me while I'm at the coffee shop reading a book. Don't talk to me cause I decided to dress like a hoe that day. God forbid anyone saying anything about how much they're dressed like one. Don't talk to me cause I actually looked good and smelled good today. God forbid a man wants to give you a compliment

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Anonymous

#3 14w

If you think you deserve a relationship because of respect you need help

Anonymous

#4 14w

There’s so much more

Anonymous

#9 14w

Sad people blaming women for their issues is exactly what I expected when I opened the thread sadly

Anonymous

#9 14w

They seem pretty varied to me

Anonymous

#4 14w

First comment is blaming women, third comment expects sex from respect. Your comment also blame women it’s fucking pathetic. How old are you? Because yall seem like children

Anonymous

#8 14w

Yall need to grow up. Go outside. Touch some grass. Stop listening to dipshits like the Tates

Anonymous

#4 14w

I wouldn’t know. Single mom didn’t raise me for relationships. Just to follow orders. Only thing I know is respect women

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Anonymous

#3 14w

And be their friend first. I just can’t get the benefits

Anonymous

#4 14w

Someone’s mad. That’s probably why no one approaches you a lot of anger for a simple comment.

Anonymous

#3 14w

I was raised in a household with my mom and 3 sisters and my dad worked all the time I learned the same lessons. You still don’t deserve benefits for respect that’s not how life works

Anonymous

#9 14w

Nobodies mad you guys are just pathetic

Anonymous

#4 14w

Like genuinely so fucking sad

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Anonymous

#4 14w

Yet you still here? That pretty fucking sad trying to prove a point are we? 🤣 I hope no one ever has to deal with you.

Anonymous

#9 14w

What point? You and the rest of you pathetic incels do it for me 💀

Anonymous

#4 14w

Congrats? Can you tell me something I don’t know?

Anonymous

#4 14w

I am pretty sad, and I sure do feel pathetic too. I've heard the sexist internet stuff but I'm pretty sure I'm not saying anything like that here, and I'm certain that is not what I believe. Sexist aggressive women hating propaganda is part of the problem

Anonymous

#4 14w

Oh here we go 🤣 you have a nice day sir/ma’m arguing is for females and by the looks of it you outed yourself. Bye 👋

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Anonymous

#9 14w

Lmao go complain about the male loneliness epidemic

Anonymous

#8 14w

You rely of other for your happiness and that’s your issue. You can’t put that on others, if you can’t be happy by yourself you really should see a therapist I mean it in the best way possible

Anonymous

#3 14w

Tbh it’s crazy how you claim you show respect but all you expect is benefits 💀 that’s not respect

Anonymous

#4 14w

I didn’t say I expect the benefits. I said I can’t get the benefits. I think I just lose confidence in the moment and freeze up

Anonymous

#4 14w

literally you’re being attacked by incels 😩 you’re RIGHT -sincerely a girl who gets approached all the time

Anonymous

#4 14w

Interesting to say when respect is the exact topic of the post here we are trying to give respect and it never gets appreciated in the way we would like it to, to build MORE than a friendship but idk I guess that’s disrespectful right?

Anonymous

#4 14w

I'm pretty sure yearning for a romantic partner is a normal and healthy part of life, humans are meant to be social animals, which means we do rely on communities/relationships to be happy. I don't think that I'm unhealthy. I do think the current state of society is a bit troubled, especially when it comes to romantic/sexual relationships. I do think I am experiencing sorrow, pain, and loss as a result.

Anonymous

#8 14w

Yes it is but believing you are pathetic because you don’t is not and is a sign of mental struggle. I’m saying this as a human being please get professional help Despite what you may have heard from terrible people therapy doesn’t make you weak

Anonymous

#12 14w

You have never interacted with a woman in your life have you? You can be flirt and be respectful

Anonymous

#8 14w

You really should take a break from social media too. You let a small handful of people dictate your beliefs of everyone Because be for real it’s not the fault of women for the fact that to many men believe them to be less. There are men who see rapist as role models. Men who see women as an object and not a living person. Men who literally defend the actions of Nazi Germany. And it’s OUR fault not theirs

Anonymous

#4 14w

Your advice really does not seem to be coming from a good place. I am pretty sure the sadness/helplessness I sometimes feel is actually a healthy response. It's not a pleasant one, but that pathetic helpless feeling is my body telling me something is wrong. I keep trying. Hopefully someday it'll all work out. I still have hope, faith, and drive. With that I'll press on.

Anonymous

#3 14w

So you’re an incel? Makes sense

Anonymous

#8 14w

You can think that all you want but if you want to remain unhealthy stop blaming your sadness on others

Anonymous

#8 14w

Like you’re not going to get pity from me if you don’t want to better yourself

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