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Today at work my boss was feeling sick. So as I left I said feel better. He got angry and sneered calling me gay. I’m not good at socializing, so is he right? Is that gay to say to another guy? Is it like a family only thing to say and not to other guys?
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Anonymous 1w

You told him feel better and he called you gay?? Wtf is wrong with your boss 😂

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Anonymous 6d

No, it’s normal to say feel better to someone who’s sick. That’s very weird of him to call you gay for that. I don’t mean to be rude, but do you socialize much irl? It seems like you’re not operating off of many other reference points for normal interaction

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Anonymous 6d

Nah you’re all good, that’s just politeness.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

He’s 79 and I have shoulder length hair so he probably thinks I am. But is it actually gay for non family males to say that to each other? Like have you ever said that to a male friend or something or is that a no no?

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Anonymous replying to -> username4444 1w

Um that was perfectly fine and kind of you to say actually. If he told you that and got mad that is a him issue not anything to do with you don’t feel bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

No I don’t

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Anonymous replying to -> username4444 6d

I’m sorry to hear that. Not that there’s anything wrong with not socializing much but it does make it harder to understand social situations. I’ve been there, it sucked

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