Anonymous #1 17h

“BAM sex pls” 😂😂

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Anonymous #3 17h

It’s truuuuuu

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Anonymous #2 17h

Hey, I asked first! /s

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Anonymous #2 16h

Hookups :/

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Anonymous #7 12h

Or pay for the premiums to see the people that like your profile.

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Anonymous #7 12h

I pay. And anyone who likes me seems to be looking for a hook up or is a low life. No in between. I don’t think I’ve ever matched with someone who matched me first.

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Anonymous #1 12h

I get that. My matches, though, tend to be people that don’t even bother messaging back or the convo just dies after a few minutes and then they ghost… or they’re so desperate to find their “one person” that they fall in love with me for just being a decent person after just a couple days. With basically no in between. 💀

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Anonymous #7 12h

I used to be the desperate one tbh. But I now ghost so fast when guys get even remotely sexual. Like NOPE.

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Anonymous #1 12h

Yeah, no, the stories I hear about the things guys say are criminally insane. It makes me embarrassed to even share a gender with them. But also, I am a very go-with-the-flow type of person, and have had connections where it was months before anything sexual happened, but also connections where we were sexting the same day we started talking, or fucking the same day we met in person. It just depends on the person.

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Anonymous #7 12h

Well it’s frustrating to be the person on the extremes. Like I’m desperate to find my person but then like “oh, you’re expressing interest?!? That’s crazy- bye” lol

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Anonymous #7 12h

And I will say that I do try not to be too sexual (except maybe a bit of humor), unless she initiates it or expresses that she wants that type of interaction. 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous #7 12h

Honestly. That’s how it should be to some extent

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Anonymous #1 12h

That’s fair. I’m also just demiromantic and need to have a real bond with someone already before making a commitment like that. Because wdym you want to make me your hubby, we’ve been talking for 2 days, lol. No, I do understand how and why certain people are like that, but it’s just incompatible with who I am as a person, and it just sucks that that’s all I seem to attract 🤷‍♂️😮‍💨

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Anonymous #7 12h

Honestly. I’m the same way tho. Like what do you mean “hi babe” like I’m not your babe. You don’t know me.

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Anonymous #1 12h

Exactly. I can think we’re just having a fun and flirty convo, and then they’re like “I’m falling in love with you” and I’m like, “we JUST met, you don’t even KNOW me”.

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Anonymous #7 12h

I think when I say desperate I mean I am looking high and low not what people usually mean about jumping in quick. Cause I want to be with someone but i require safety first and then you can touch me but most guys are hands first brain later

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Anonymous #7 12h

Ewwwwww. Yeah. Love. I said I love you to my last partner 1 month in. And I didn’t mean to. And I was like how the fuck do I back out. 😂😂 I told him it was an accident and I didn’t mean it. But I could tell he wanted me to mean it. And well that was uncomfortable

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Anonymous #1 12h

Yeah, no, that sounds pretty normal. I do also just try to do my best to make sure that whomever I’m talking to DOES feel comfortable and safe while talking to me, which is probably WHY I attract that type of person in the first place. But that’s not something I’m going to change about myself just because of that.🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous #7 12h

Yeah don’t. Being kind and safe is a missing characteristic that most guys ESPECIALLY online miss

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Anonymous #1 12h

Oh definitely

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Anonymous #7 12h

Anyway I think I’m in love with you.

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Anonymous #1 12h

💀

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Anonymous #7 12h

😂😂😂 sorry I had to

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Anonymous #1 12h

Fair enough, lol. That your way of ending the random comment that convo?

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Anonymous #7 12h

Comment thread convo *

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Anonymous #7 12h

No. I just couldn’t resist. But you seem like a great guy and approachable. So you got that going for you. lol.

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Anonymous #1 12h

Fair enough. And thank you. 😁 You don’t seem so bad yourself, either. 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous #7 12h

Aye. Thanks. I try 😂😂

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Anonymous #7 12h

Just gonna add that to my daily ego boost (we will pretend that I do in fact get a daily ego boost) 😂

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Anonymous #1 11h

lol same

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