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Guys who has these “situationships” are just dudes not knowing what they wand. You’re an adult. Make up your fucking mind. Grow up

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Anonymous 4d

No literally. Also it’s such bullshit when people say they need months to decide if they want to date someone. If you want someone you will know instantly.

Anonymous 4d

It’s not just guys who have situationships. It’s women, as well. This isn’t a phenomenon that is restricted to one gender only. It’s both men and women.

Anonymous 3d

I just got out of a long term relationship and sometimes we don’t want to jump back into something serious. It’s ok to want to have no commitment if you both are open to that. Just be an adult and establish yourselves and boundaries.

Anonymous 4d

Rlly not that deep, just choose not to participate in it as a female✌🏼Only caveat is if you’re leading someone on that’s not cool, but if you weren’t promised anything from anyone can’t be angry imo

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Anonymous 3d

Still wanna keep hitting tho

Anonymous 3d

Want you so bad but It wouldn’t work out

Anonymous 4d

Part of it seems to be insecurity. Not knowing if you are ready for it and not being sure if you actually want to be with someone.

Anonymous 4d

The number of guys 30+ (I’m 26 but I had my age range set to 24-36) who have “Figuring it out” for their relationship type is disgusting. Like the lack of decisiveness is so gross in my opinion

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Anonymous 4d

Loooooool

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Anonymous 3d

Same

Anonymous 3d

have* want* 🫡

Anonymous

#3 4d

That doesn’t seem like insecurity to me if you’re critically asking yourself if you are personally ready for a relationship. Sometimes you’re unsure of yourself because of things like past trauma and you don’t know whether you’re in a space to make a loving commitment.

Anonymous

#2 4d

Well it can be one or both. There are also a bunch of other reasons I’ve seen but those two seem to be the most common.

Anonymous

#1 4d

Tell me about it. Why play with people like that

Anonymous

#2 4d

We all know women can’t make up their minds. Don’t kill me

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Anonymous

#1 4d

I know. The worst thing is when someone knows that you have a good soul and then they go into your life trying to make you feel like they want you, just to like hurt your feelings

Anonymous

#4 3d

“female” oh brother this guy STINKS

Anonymous

#5 3d

As a man in this age range, let me offer this insight. We are being incentivized not to marry. Not to mention the world is pricing out middle class families from being able to afford anything. It is clear that whoever is pulling the strings wants population to decrease. Men want to get married and have kids but the conditions aren’t right.

Anonymous

#10 3d

Why can’t you get married without having kids? And what is the incentive to have a smaller population?

Anonymous

#12 3d

i think he’s saying it’s about money and the economy, taxes change when you get married….regardless this is something you could always talk to ur partner about

Anonymous

#12 3d

It is financially infeasible to get married and support a family if you make the median income. Getting married without kids is unattractive to men, because it’s a huge liability with no reward. I believe it’s 54% of marriages end in divorce, so no man wants to get married unless he loves the woman, trusts her, and they want kids together. Just speaking honestly, I’d never get married unless children and having a family were the goal.

Anonymous

#13 3d

You are close, but taxes actually get better when you get married. However, expenses and liabilities typically increase heavily. The average sized wedding typically costs $20k and housing costs $350k for a median income. The median income in the US is $80k but most young people make far less than that. In conclusion, it’s become less viable to be married.