This exactly. I hate feeling like an item to be used, or like sex is done to me rather than being a mutual activity with mutual enjoyment. Also lowkey, everyone can get off by themselves. But you can’t have a fulfilling relationship by yourself. Sex is nothing groundbreaking

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Anonymous #1 16w

Don’t jump to conclusions, people have different libidos

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Anonymous #4 16w

I always see women say stuff like “men only want one thing” so clearly there’s a difference there. Also maybe I’m under a rock but I really don’t see that double standard irl

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Anonymous OP 16w

Maybe I’m too woke but I think the “men only want one thing” thing can be attributed to societal standards, not biology. I mean think about how much pressure there is on men to be good at sex, to be dominant, to be able to ‘get’ women. There’s a lot of societal shame around erectile dysfunction for example, when it’s really only a health issue, but men see it as tied to their self worth. Men are seen as sexual being, and women are really just seen as something to receive that energy.

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Anonymous #3 16w

I think I’m talking around the point I’m trying to make but I hope you get it

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