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How do I (a bi F) ask this guy if he is homophobic they I am seeing? I am thinking about bringing up the movie Philadelphia since he likes movies. My friend said he might be cause of the country he is from but him being an atheist is a green flag
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Anonymous 1d

Just tell him you’re bi. If you don’t like that he’s not for you.

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Anonymous 20h

Might be an unpopular opinion here but I feel like I never have to ask or would want to, it’s usually easy to tell with time (pretty quickly)

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Anonymous 15h

How long have you two been dating? It’s bound to come up passively at some point

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Anonymous 19h

Just ask him if you get another girl and he would like to join. Next ask if you would bring another man and he would like to join. That way you would know if he’s comfortable and with what

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Sooo many men say “that’s hot” or “every woman is” then if they ever do ask about my ex see she’s masc they have a “?????” reaction lol. Men left me alone about asking for “3 somes” when I said “if I can pick who it’s with, then sure” lol. I just don’t like telling men bc they sexualize it instead of viewing it as legitimate 😞 But I’ve never had anyone be rude about it besides my conservative anti-lgbt sister

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

Fact 👆🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

Never give advice again

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

Being bi doesn’t mean you automatically want threesomes, theres bi people that are strictly monogamous, and theres guys that would be down for a FFM threesome that have insanely homophobic ideas about gay men and lesbians

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

They not the ones for you. If they do that they’re weird

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