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My bf lied about going through my snap should I break up with him?
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Anonymous 18h

Holy first world problem 😹😹😹

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Anonymous 21h

why tf u still have sc anyway

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Anonymous 21h

Trust is important but it might be beneficial for yall to meet in the middle. Clearly he doesn’t feel comfy abt snap and u don’t feel comfy abt him going through ur phone. Solution = u off snap, him not allowed through ur phone

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Anonymous 20h

I think you need to have a serious conversation about why he went through it in the first place AND why he lied about it. I think it’s controlling and unnecessary for you to delete snap over nothing. Idk how old you are, but I’m 20 and I’ve been with my bf for over 4 years, and I try to remember like I’m still young and there are things Im going to want to do yk?

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Anonymous 20h

Mmm nah but speak with him about being truthful

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Anonymous 20h

its you’re boyfriend he should be allowed to go through ur phone from time to time breaking up with him over that would be ridiculous but you do you😂

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Anonymous 17h

Delete social media is what you need to do. Social media has killed romance and this is a perfect example of how.

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Anonymous 21h

I would. huge breach of trust.

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Anonymous 20h

if he’s willing to lie to you about something he’ll lie again. it can be small but its still a lie. leave while you can. the love of your life will not be able to bare lying to you

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Anonymous 12h

Sounds like u have something to hide

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Is that a yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

Not typically the kinda thing yall break up over but seeing as how ur weighing that as an option over this kinda issue, it might be worth considering how much you truly favor your relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20h

That’s not true people lie, the love of your life will still fail occasionally and let you down. The key to a healthy relationship is forgiveness and trying to do better everyday.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

+ the only people who would truly be mad about this are the ones who have something to hide so🤷🏽‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

nah that is a terrible, toxic attitude. normal boundaries and privacy should exist even in a healthy relationship. you should trust your partner instead of feeling entitled to spy and hover over them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

that’s not what i said tho i said you should be aloud to go thru ur s/o phone from time to time, if my gf were to hide her snap and never let me go on her phone any person with a brain would be suspicious, im not saying do it when they’re not looking but you have every right to want to go thru ur gf or bf phone without it being toxic🤷🏽‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

you said the only person who would be mad would be someone trying to hide things. that is 100% a toxic attitude. OP said he lied about going through her sc, so this is clearly not an agreed-upon part of trust in their relationship, it's her bf being toxic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

yeah and i stand on that if you want to break up with ur bf or gf over going thru ur phone you have problems not once have i caught my girl going thru my phone and thought hmmm let me get mad and break up with her she’s aloud to reassure herself and see nothings there🤣 if you get mad at that 9 times out of 10 you have a guilty conscience bc somethings there

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9h

Sounds like he doesn’t trust OP and has trust issues

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