Ask Anything on Yik Yak | I’m confused. I’m a straight girl but I feel like most girls I see are really pretty and most guys I see are kinda ugly. I don’t think I’m into girls, like I don’t want to kiss them, I think they’re pretty like a sunset. Should I question my sexuality?

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I’m confused. I’m a straight girl but I feel like most girls I see are really pretty and most guys I see are kinda ugly. I don’t think I’m into girls, like I don’t want to kiss them, I think they’re pretty like a sunset. Should I question my sexuality?

Anonymous 10w

You can think sunsets and women are beautiful without wanting to fuck them

Anonymous 10w

I’m bi and feel a similar way, but the thing is that a lot of the girls I find pretty I’m not actually attracted to/they aren’t my type. Ig what I’m saying is that you could still be very straight. I appreciate women like a sunset and also like hot and sexy, but those things aren’t the same feeling, if that makes sense? You might just have a very specific type in men. Also tbh, women tend to put a lot more effort into their appearance, while men don’t, so that might impact the ratio too

Anonymous 10w

If you think most men are kinda ugly, go for the ones who aren’t. Seems like you just have a more specific type than a lot of people. But if you ever see a girl who you do want to kiss, go for it! Sexuality can be fluid and messy, if you’re confused by labels, then dont use them!

Anonymous 10w

Men don’t use makeup. I wash my face with soap for Christ sake. We just don’t care as much about appearances. Also beauty as a standard is always changing and subjective. Anyway I agree women are on average better looking at least from what I’ve seen.

Anonymous 10w

lol no that’s normal and some girls are hot like I would kiss them and I’m “straight” don’t stress abt it so hard

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#1 10w

I know I know haha, I guess it’s more the fact that even though I’m attracted to men, I still think that most of them are kind of ugly, and even thought I’m not attracted to women, I think most of them are really pretty… so that’s why I’m confused if that makes sense

Anonymous

OP 10w

I mean, it’s possible to be heterosexual but homoromantic or vice versa… you could also be bi, or maybe you just objectively think women are beautiful and none of the men you see on a regular basis meet your personal standard of male beauty?

Anonymous

#6 10w

I went back and forth between so many microlabels my whole life, and while I appreciate that they can be helpful for a lot of people, my life became a lot better and more simple when I stopped trying to define attraction instead of feeling it. Now I just tell people I’m queer if I tell them anything at all, and I don’t try to limit things. Do I ever find men attractive?? Never. But if I ever do, I’ll see if I can explore it, labels or previous conceptions of identity be damned!