
FAKE IT TIL U MAKE IT. literally the only way that worked for me. I know this seems super silly but literally give urself some time everyday to maybe put on a cute outfit u wouldnt usually be comfy wearing and just listen to some music that makes u feel good and pretend ur in an edit or something. U gotta pretend ur the hottest to finally start believing u are. A lot of it boils down to realizing nothing is that serious and nobody rlly cares what ur dressing up like!
Find people with the same style. I don’t care if it’s here or Reddit or a club or friends, fine someone you can trust will complement a fire fit. Then wear the fit somewhere with them, around less strangers. Acclimate slowly. It’s not easy but now I’m at the point where I’m comfortable dressing in fun ways. Not all the way there but I will be someday