I am on the lower side of the spectrum if so. I think it’s gotten better the older I’ve gotten. As a kid (like 8 or 12) my dog died and I was not fazed in the slightest. It makes sense. He died, he’s not here anymore, no point in crying over it. Just went back to playing with toys. Just yesterday my brother weighed in and was talking about how I really didn’t give a shit about anyone around me when I was a kid. My emotions are muted for sure. But I still feel guilt, a sociopath wouldn’t. Right?
I’d say I feel empathy, just less so than normal. And it depends. Example: drove down the highway and saw a dear get bulldozed by a truck while I was in the other lane with some friends. Everyone else was grossed out and I was as kinda just like “wow that’s surprising, I guess that sorta thing does happen pretty often tho.”