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Am i a asshole?🧍🏾‍♂️
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16 upvotes, 12 comments. Yik Yak poll by Anonymous in AITA. "Am i a asshole?🧍🏾‍♂️"
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Anonymous 16h

As someone who was friends with a girl just like this, she isn’t going to block him because she needs the attention and needs to broadcast how “desirable” she is to all her other friends. You’re NAH but i highly recommend quietly distancing yourself starting, like, now

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Anonymous 13h

“I’m bored, should I text my ex” like really? Get a life or something holy

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Anonymous 16h

I accidentally voted yes cause I thought it meant yes cut her off😭

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Anonymous 14h

Cut them off. YNTA here. Those types are self centered and they just wanna make every thing about themselves. I done the same with cutting many ppl off for very similar reasons.

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Anonymous 14h

Cut her off

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Anonymous 14h

I agree

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Anonymous 6m

definitely NTA. she seems self centered and also like someone who’d cut YOU off over a guy. not only is she selfish by dismissing your problems, but she’s also annoying asl. needa leave ASAP 😭

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Anonymous 5m

I was this friend, if she is like me and she might not be but if she is. I didn’t know there was other things to talk about, I would never text my ex but I had a lot of guys I would talk to and I wanted to talk about it because I thought that was all I was worth. It wasn’t until my friends pointed it out to me and made conversations with me intentionally about other things that I was able to heal from it. But you have todo what is best for you not her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

She is never going to really care about you, only care she has is men and what you think about her misadventures with them and using you for emotional labor to prop up her own mountain of insecurities

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1h

that’s what i’m sayinggg😭 we’ve been on the phone a few times the past 2 weeks and she says that every other day, mind you we both graduated college last week, like there HAS to be something exciting to do other than bother a man who you talked trash about behind his back while y’all were dating, yet was upset when y’all broke up. (i still don’t understand that tbh)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1h

yeah i cut one friend off for that a few months ago and i might be doing it again, i sent her a short paragraph venting about my frustrations w/ the car/insurance stuff a few days ago and after she gave a response she said: “Soo i might be seeing him this friday😋”, i didn’t even acknowledge that part of her text bc i’m over talking about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1h

yeah that’s what i’m thinking, i feel like a bad friend even saying all of this stuff but i’m just so over it, like we just graduated college last week, we are grownnnnn and your over here geeking about 5+ different guys that your talking to, one of them being 30??? it just gives high school to me idk

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