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Am i a asshole?🧍🏾‍♂️
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59 upvotes, 23 comments. Yik Yak poll by Anonymous in AITA. "Am i a asshole?🧍🏾‍♂️"
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Anonymous 6w

As someone who was friends with a girl just like this, she isn’t going to block him because she needs the attention and needs to broadcast how “desirable” she is to all her other friends. You’re NAH but i highly recommend quietly distancing yourself starting, like, now

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Anonymous 6w

Cut them off. YNTA here. Those types are self centered and they just wanna make every thing about themselves. I done the same with cutting many ppl off for very similar reasons.

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Anonymous 6w

I accidentally voted yes cause I thought it meant yes cut her off😭

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Anonymous 6w

“I’m bored, should I text my ex” like really? Get a life or something holy

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Anonymous 6w

I was this friend, if she is like me and she might not be but if she is. I didn’t know there was other things to talk about, I would never text my ex but I had a lot of guys I would talk to and I wanted to talk about it because I thought that was all I was worth. It wasn’t until my friends pointed it out to me and made conversations with me intentionally about other things that I was able to heal from it. But you have todo what is best for you not her.

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Anonymous 6w

Nooope NTA I can’t stand people like this tbh. There’s so much we could talk about, but somehow every conversation turns into a pity party about boy drama that I don’t care about

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Anonymous 6w

definitely NTA. she seems self centered and also like someone who’d cut YOU off over a guy. not only is she selfish by dismissing your problems, but she’s also annoying asl. needa leave ASAP 😭

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Anonymous 6w

Cut her off

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Anonymous 6w

I would have a conversation with her about how she only talks about the men in her life and how you getting tired of the same topic all the time, maybe she doesn’t realize what she’s doing or maybe she’ll change But if you already did and she’s not changing i would start distancing for sure You are not the asshole

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Anonymous 6w

girl ditch that dick obsessed ho😭 she sounds like my old friend. left me at my first party to go w niggas hn

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Anonymous 6w

You’re not the asshole, but maybe try telling her how you feel before cutting her off. Always give people the chance to grow, and be better.. but if she doesn’t understand, remove yourself from the situation that’s clearly draining you.

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Anonymous 6w

Sounds like she’s not taking an interest in what you want to talk about. If she’s not being a good friend to you, there’s no obligation for you to hang around

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Anonymous 6w

I agree

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Anonymous 5w

drop her bro omg 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

She is never going to really care about you, only care she has is men and what you think about her misadventures with them and using you for emotional labor to prop up her own mountain of insecurities

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

that’s what i’m sayinggg😭 we’ve been on the phone a few times the past 2 weeks and she says that every other day, mind you we both graduated college last week, like there HAS to be something exciting to do other than bother a man who you talked trash about behind his back while y’all were dating, yet was upset when y’all broke up. (i still don’t understand that tbh)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

yeah i cut one friend off for that a few months ago and i might be doing it again, i sent her a short paragraph venting about my frustrations w/ the car/insurance stuff a few days ago and after she gave a response she said: “Soo i might be seeing him this friday😋”, i didn’t even acknowledge that part of her text bc i’m over talking about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

yeah that’s what i’m thinking, i feel like a bad friend even saying all of this stuff but i’m just so over it, like we just graduated college last week, we are grownnnnn and your over here geeking about 5+ different guys that your talking to, one of them being 30??? it just gives high school to me idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Same oops

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Same…

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

bullshit you not she just texted me this lmfaoo😭 like bro what

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Girl ghost her. Like just don’t respond. If you feel you literally cant leave her on read text her a “👍” emoji or an “ok”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

That’s actually some kind of metal disorder atp

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