
I was this friend, if she is like me and she might not be but if she is. I didn’t know there was other things to talk about, I would never text my ex but I had a lot of guys I would talk to and I wanted to talk about it because I thought that was all I was worth. It wasn’t until my friends pointed it out to me and made conversations with me intentionally about other things that I was able to heal from it. But you have todo what is best for you not her.
that’s what i’m sayinggg😭 we’ve been on the phone a few times the past 2 weeks and she says that every other day, mind you we both graduated college last week, like there HAS to be something exciting to do other than bother a man who you talked trash about behind his back while y’all were dating, yet was upset when y’all broke up. (i still don’t understand that tbh)
yeah i cut one friend off for that a few months ago and i might be doing it again, i sent her a short paragraph venting about my frustrations w/ the car/insurance stuff a few days ago and after she gave a response she said: “Soo i might be seeing him this friday😋”, i didn’t even acknowledge that part of her text bc i’m over talking about it
yeah that’s what i’m thinking, i feel like a bad friend even saying all of this stuff but i’m just so over it, like we just graduated college last week, we are grownnnnn and your over here geeking about 5+ different guys that your talking to, one of them being 30??? it just gives high school to me idk