
I was this friend, if she is like me and she might not be but if she is. I didn’t know there was other things to talk about, I would never text my ex but I had a lot of guys I would talk to and I wanted to talk about it because I thought that was all I was worth. It wasn’t until my friends pointed it out to me and made conversations with me intentionally about other things that I was able to heal from it. But you have todo what is best for you not her.
I would have a conversation with her about how she only talks about the men in her life and how you getting tired of the same topic all the time, maybe she doesn’t realize what she’s doing or maybe she’ll change But if you already did and she’s not changing i would start distancing for sure You are not the asshole
that’s what i’m sayinggg😭 we’ve been on the phone a few times the past 2 weeks and she says that every other day, mind you we both graduated college last week, like there HAS to be something exciting to do other than bother a man who you talked trash about behind his back while y’all were dating, yet was upset when y’all broke up. (i still don’t understand that tbh)
yeah i cut one friend off for that a few months ago and i might be doing it again, i sent her a short paragraph venting about my frustrations w/ the car/insurance stuff a few days ago and after she gave a response she said: “Soo i might be seeing him this friday😋”, i didn’t even acknowledge that part of her text bc i’m over talking about it
yeah that’s what i’m thinking, i feel like a bad friend even saying all of this stuff but i’m just so over it, like we just graduated college last week, we are grownnnnn and your over here geeking about 5+ different guys that your talking to, one of them being 30??? it just gives high school to me idk