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AITA For joking about my dead dogs? We had some of their ashes turned into glass beads and I turned mine into a necklace. A girl asked where I got the beads from since she makes necklaces too, so I said "the vet's incinerator".. she said I was cruel
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Anonymous 4d

Tf? They ur dogs not hers 😭 tell her to lighten up and mind her own business and

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Anonymous 4d

Definitely not everyone has their own version of dark humor she was just not that kind of person and that’s okay, she shouldn’t judge u tho ur the one who lost ur dog…

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Anonymous 3d

NTA I joke about my dead brother all the time 🫠 it’s your pain to deal with as you please and it’s not like you were guilt tripping her lol

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Anonymous 4d

Idk… like #1 said it your dogs not her… yet that was DARK!

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Anonymous 3d

NTA some people cope with humor- I would’ve laughed

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Anonymous 3d

She just can’t take a joke

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Anonymous 3d

lmao it’s called dark humor she can grow up

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Anonymous 3d

I make the same kind of jokes about my two dead wives. Dark humour is a load bearing structure.

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Anonymous 3d

Bro I’m sorry but like you’re the one that lost the dogs and you did something cool as fuck like make them into beads for a necklace???? Which she obviously thought were cool looking since she asked where to get them. Tbf I literally work in vet med but I’d be so interested and I’d be praising you for such an awesome way to memorialize loved ones???🤨like what’s up her ass actually tho

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Anonymous 3d

I mean even if she’s offended by dark humor, you are correct as that is where you got it from

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Anonymous 3d

NAH, she asked you answered not your fault that she didn't like the answer

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Anonymous 3d

Not at all 😭 If making jokes and dark humor helps you cope, then so be it. It’s not up to anyone else how you cope with your grief — keep doing what helps you the best !!

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Anonymous 3d

No that was funny she’s doing too much

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Anonymous 2d

Not cruel. I also cope with humor. As long as your not joking about other people’s dead dog (unless their okay with it) then you’re good.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3d

I just can’t imagine being offended by someone else’s emotional loss. I just don’t get that. You’re not entitled to be the victim in every situation. Maybe it’s sad but like it’s way more sad for the person that actually experienced that vs you, who only experienced it secondhand thru their recounting of it…. Am I reading this wrong??

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Hold on buddy what do you mean by two, run it all the way back. Sounding like a widow maker over there

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 3d

Yeah welcome to my fuckin’ life. Losing a wife is a tragedy. Losing two just seems like carelessness.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Man I was making a joke; widow maker isn’t just a type of tree or heart attack it’s also a joke for people men and women who remarry and their new spouse dies too. My great grandfather was a widow maker he outlived four wives after 2, someone’s gonna crack a joke.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 3d

No worries. Joke gratefully received.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Beware of this person

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 2d

They’re**

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