
As someone who was SA’d I understand your anger, but I feel as though it is misplaced. Be angry at the systems who mistreat us, not those who want to support us. They’ll never understand and they know that, oftentimes that’s why they show their support in smaller ways, even saying that it’s bad is helpful because we need to promote how disgusting it is. Words mean something too.
It’s not anger at them. It’s me saying that compared to the opinions on SA I’m going to listen to someone who experienced it over someone who didn’t. That’s not anger if anything that’s what it should be. Why should I listen to someone talking about what SA is like and what it does to people when they’ve never experienced it? And this comment above is in response to people being annoyed that I’d rather listen to other actual victims. And I hope this doesn’t sound mean but saying you support