So I went on this date and this guy was perfect. He was attractive, kind, and we got along on a lot of things. But then he drops the bomb that he’s in love with his step sister and is dating me to get over her. I ended things with him because I was like-
Wtf is wrong with you. He got all defensive and said that I should be kind to him because he’s getting over a relationship. Then he got MY MOTHER involved. I blocked him on everything then he sent me a handwritten passive aggressive letter. AITA?
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Anonymous70w
0 possibility of u being the asshole in this situation he literally admitted he’s using you and HES IN LOVE WITH HIS STEP SISTER THAT IS CRAZY RUN BABY RUN SO FAR
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Anonymous70w
Here’s a bit of an update. He got his friends to bash me online and wrote me ANOTHER hand written note saying I was the worst person he’s ever met for not supporting him through this. How am I supposed to support him? ATP I’m willing to pay for his therapy because boy he needs it
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Anonymous70w
This can’t be real
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Anonymous70w
He needs a psych ward, Dr Phil, and intense therapy
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Anonymous70w
UH
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Anonymous70w
Omfg get police to his house to leave you alone if he continues that yall went on a DATE your under no obligation to help him get over a relationship or be particularly nice to him after he dropped that on you halp
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Anonymous70w
GET A RESTRAINING ORDER!! THEN MAYBE HE WILL STOP SENDING LETTERS
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Anonymous70w
Good for you!! Do not ever get into a sketchy situation that your gut is screaming no against!!
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Anonymous70w
RUN
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Anonymous70w
Girl is there any other way he can contact you besides another handwritten letter? Because you cant let him contact you again. Can he contact you in any way???
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Anonymous70w
UPDATE!!!! My restraining order got filed and I’ve befriended campus police so we’re good.
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Anonymous70w
THE WAY MY JAW DROPPED
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Anonymous70w
Were they dating? wtf
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Anonymous70w
Girl can I get an update?
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Anonymous70w
🫢
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Anonymous70w
UGH GIRL U DODGED A BULLET
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Anonymous70w
I… is this real ???
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Anonymous70w
Yikes
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Anonymous70w
ayo what da
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Anonymous70w
Nah u fumbled a solid 10 fr
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Anonymous#470w
Trust me… I wish it wasn’t
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Anonymous#570w
Dr Phil is the last thing anyone needs
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Anonymous#870w
I need him
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Anonymous#970w
Are you a republican candidate?
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AnonymousOP70w
Out him
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AnonymousOP70w
He doesn’t deserve any better than that
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AnonymousOP70w
Keep updating us!!
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AnonymousOP70w
How smooth did he think he was
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AnonymousOP70w
tell his friends that he’s in love w his step sister i think that should get him to fuck off
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AnonymousOP70w
are you dead ass asking if youre the asshole
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Anonymous#1370w
No he can’t even send them to my apartment anymore because I moved. He has friends hand deliver them to me-
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AnonymousOP70w
Another Update. So he contacted my mother abt this earlier and my mom’s encouraging me to play into it for her psychology study. I can’t with this. A month ago I was so bored and I wanted the plot to thicken, but I didn’t expect Ts
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AnonymousOP70w
Motha what are you doing to your child 😭 pretty soon the study will be on your own child 😭😭
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AnonymousOP70w
Nah because I would throw them away IMMEDIATELY 😭
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AnonymousOP70w
Girl no you have to get out of there
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AnonymousOP70w
no thats actually wild. how do his friends know where you moved?? they come to your new place?? do they stalk you??😭😭
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Anonymous#1970w
They hand deliver it to me at school or at work
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AnonymousOP70w
They are secondhand stalking you 😭 GIRL GET OUT OF THERE‼️‼️
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AnonymousOP70w
you go to the same school as your ex and his friends?
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Anonymous#1970w
Yah I met them at college
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AnonymousOP70w
okay that makes a little more sense
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AnonymousOP70w
is there a way you can transfer to s different university for next year so you dont have to see them again? one thats in a different city or state?
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AnonymousOP70w
if you still have a few more years to do at university before you graduate
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AnonymousOP70w
This is a little psychotic but rip the letter in half without reading it and hand it back to the friend. Do it as many times as possible until he gets the hint. Try filing for harassment if he keeps contacting u when it’s not desired.
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Anonymous#2270w
Mine too 🤧
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AnonymousOP70w
Ayyyy slay queen
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Anonymous#1170w
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AnonymousOP70w
YESSSSS YOU TOOK MY ADVICE GOOD JOB!!! IM SO PROUD OF YOU QUEEN!!🤩👏🏼👏🏼
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AnonymousOP70w
did you also get a restraining order on his friends/everyone involved as well? not just him? idk how it works tbh since they are like a third party and its not actually him delivering you the letters
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AnonymousOP70w
LFGGG QUEEN what a creep glad you got sorted out
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Anonymous#1970w
No because I talked to one of them after they tried to hand me a note and then we all decided to team up against him and danced whimsically in a circle. Shout out to them they’re my homeboys now. He lost his girl and his besties