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AITA that i don’t want my boyfriend to take his motorbike onto the island we’re vacationing on? he’s been nonstop about it since he got it and there’s gravel all over the island (he’s fallen already due to it).
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Anonymous 11w

something like “It would make me really uncomfortable with you bringing the motorbike on our trip. I want you to have fun, but i really don’t want you to get hurt and i hope you can see where im coming from and understand stand that” he should be able to understand where you’re coming from and if he doesn’t, and brings it anyways then that’s on him. you communicated how you felt

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Anonymous 11w

NTA!!!

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Anonymous 11w

NTA, ur trying to keep him safe

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Anonymous 11w

Even if he falls riding on the island, he would be happy trying. So why not let him try? He’s excited about it and you’re dimming his shine :(

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Anonymous 11w

yeah u are, it’s his vacation too. i’d bring it up that you don’t want him to but he’s not obligated to listen, let the man have fun

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Hate when the sad face gets separated lmaooooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

NTA, It sound like you’re stressed about him getting hurt and a trip to the ER which is an instant vacation killer - especially if he gets seriously hurt. It great everyone wants him to have fun, but it’s both of your vacation and it can be hard to relax when you’re stressed about where the Hubby is. Maybe he can plan a different vacation/ bike trip with his friends? That way he can still enjoy his bike but you’ll get some rest.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Oops sorry meant to reply to OP

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