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AITA 17w
Buckle up (more in comments)
22 upvotes, 17 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in AITA. "Buckle up (more in comments)"
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Anonymous 17w

NTA he should be a little more stable, but your lack of communication is also at fault. At the end of the day, you did have feelings for him, he was trying to convince you that you should break up with your bf, and you unblocked him. So in a sense, he is right to feel upset for your actions. However, threatening is not ok. Ultimately, your lack of communication/ and additional communication with X is what set the relationship to fail. He was just the one to “break the camels back”.

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Anonymous 17w

Nta

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Anonymous 17w

I feel like you weren’t completely innocent here, but also stuff like this can be so complex. I am glad y’all ended up breaking up (imo it should’ve been earlier). A similar thing happened to me when I was with my ex, just not quite as dramatic. Hope you’re doing well now!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

This guy is a mess, be glad you got out when you did

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

You shouldn’t be having communication with people that are actively interested in you, and are convincing you to break up with your bf. That’s not cool. However, ex-bf certainly did many wrongs

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You just need to ask yourself. Did you leave because you wanted to go or did you leave because you found something better? You have the right to break up and date whoever, but you need to respect the other person. It’s ok, not understanding your feelings and what you should do. However, that’s is why you need to communicate these things. I think if your ex-bf knew about the whole situation (being clingy, and relationship with X) and you communicated with him, he wouldn’t have acted that why imo

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

Way*

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

All good points. We’d had several conversations about what I felt like wasn’t working and how it could be fixed.. it just wasn’t fixed

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