
Just in case a trans person ever reads this thread, I just want them to know that there’s at least one person here who understands that not disclosing your trans identity is NOT assault or anything like it. You have every right to have sex without fear of violence or persecution, whether that means disclosing or not disclosing
I mean different people are going to agree and disagree but the argument could be made that someone in drag (ie not trans but a cis man in drag, although drag can be a pipeline to different identity for some ppl) who is therefore lying about something that is arguably crucial to sexual acts could be some kind of misdemeanor. It’s definitely not as bad as lying about wearing a condom or something tho so maybe assault is dramatic.