AITA on Yik Yak | Would I bta for cutting off a friend for being low effort. Idk she swears up and down she wants to see me but ghosts me for a week everytime i actually suggest something. I’m done being the only one putting in effort. Sorry if you see this girl lol

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AITA 17h

Would I bta for cutting off a friend for being low effort. Idk she swears up and down she wants to see me but ghosts me for a week everytime i actually suggest something. I’m done being the only one putting in effort. Sorry if you see this girl lol

34 upvotes, 5 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in AITA. "Would I bta for cutting off a friend for being low effort. Idk she swears up and down she wants to see me but ghosts me for a week everytime i actually suggest something. I’m done being the only one putting in effort. Sorry if you see this girl lol"

Anonymous 16h

I had a friend like this and I honestly just stopped replying because it was like she wanted to but didn’t have the energy, not worth your time or worries

Anonymous 11h

i don't think she's necessarily wrong for being bad at texting/responding, but if you feel like you're doing all the work and she just doesn't care about the friendship, then fs you're fine in cutting her off

Anonymous 1h

Yes. Meet her where she’s at. Adjust your expectations. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Also she might feel intimidated responding to you after you spoke to her kinda aggressive like that^

Anonymous 11m

NTA

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#2 11h

honestly if it's a friendship dynamic you don't like in any way, you're nta for ending the friendship, without it being a moral inspection of either party