AITA on Yik Yak | boyfriend said i have a bush when i clearly don’t, so i got a little insecure. he said, “I’ve never been with a girl with a bush. every other girl has been clean shaven.” i trim but it’s nowhere near bush level. he says it’s fine but it made me upset.

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boyfriend said i have a bush when i clearly don’t, so i got a little insecure. he said, “I’ve never been with a girl with a bush. every other girl has been clean shaven.” i trim but it’s nowhere near bush level. he says it’s fine but it made me upset.

Anonymous 3w

NTA, your boyfriend needs to grow up and realize he doesn’t have a vagina so he CANT judge other vaginas, does he shave his ballsack? I don’t think so lmao

Anonymous 3w

NTA, comparing you to other women is weird asf

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Anonymous 3w

imo ur supposed to have hair, its there for a reason. if bro doesnt like it he can hit it from someone else

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Anonymous 3w

as a lesbian, bushes are attractive. the concept of men expecting no hair is rooted in pedophilic beauty standards. a bush makes you a WOMAN. trim it for you, but never let a man tell you what to do with your body.

Anonymous

#1 3w

Wait other dudes don't shave their balls? IMO if it's going in her mouth then I should be shaving it

Anonymous

#1 3w

no lmao. this whole conversation started because he noticed some peach fuzz on me (i just have more than other girls ig?) but im blonde so i never really thought anything of it. we were joking about it at first but then he was like “the only thing that bothers me is when you don’t shave your armpits. even your bush doesn’t bother me.” and when i said “i don’t have a bush” he was vehement that i do and that’s when he brought up the other girls and 🌽 stars!!!??

Anonymous

#3 3w

thank u! that’s what ive been saying! and he doesn’t get why it upset me so much..

Anonymous

OP 3w

Wait so he doesn't even shave his shit and he's out here comparing your situation 🌽stars? That's actually blasphemy ima kick his ass tbh

Anonymous

OP 3w

I'm ngl I do not like your man, I'm so sorry you had to put up w that

Anonymous

#3 3w

yes!!!!! and his ex girlfriends. his exact words were “every girl in 🌽 is bare. if they have any hair, it’s considered a bush. and ive only ever been with girls who completely shaved.” like OK but as a woman im simply explaining to you that you’re using the term incorrectly and it’s kind of insulting because you’re insinuating that the little hair i have is a lot and idk I feel like sometimes bush has a negative connotation to it because of 🌽 and social media you know???

Anonymous

OP 3w

Oh yeah absolutely, idk why he doesn't get that he's just using the wrong term, but he doesn't get the fact that the comparisons are mean too, so he's just not a smart dude