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AITA 1d
AITA? I went out to the bar with this girl (situationship/fwb). Another girl came up to us and said a guy was following her around and touching her and she didn't like it, and wanted to hide and talk to us. She went back to her friends... (cont'd)
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Anonymous 1d

Nta, you did the right thing. Tbh its super weird that your fwb didn’t appreciate you for stepping in like that. You helped that other girl after she said she was uncomfortable and that’s a huge green flag

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Anonymous 1d

Then they came back over by us and I watched the guy touch and grab up on her and keep whispering in her ear again, and she looked very uncomfortable, so I grabbed security and told them that this guy was making that girl feel uncomfortable, and they should watch him. The guy left after I told them that, and then I told the girl that I told security and they booted him, and her and her friends thanked me. Now... the part where I'm asking AITA, is on the ride back, the girl I'm talking to...

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Anonymous 9h

as a woman it’s weird that she was mad at you for that 🫩 it’s giving internalized misogyny

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Thought it was weird that I even told security that this was happening and said she didn't like that it "ruined our time together" at the bar, because I wanted to leave after it happened (and I also wasn't liking the vibes before that happened either). She went on about how I "looked excited" when that girl came up to us, and all this other bs. I said I'm not dealing with this and removed her from my phone. AITA?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Right? Like I thought she'd really appreciate that... Because I know she's dealt with guys making her feel uncomfortable in the past that she's opened up to me about. But all I get is her telling me it was weird because she has friends to help her do that (Which they weren't, so I took it into my own hands)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Idk if your fwb is insecure or not, but if she is then maybe she took you helping that girl as “he’s paying attention to her instead of me” instead of seeing it as “wow I love that he helped someone”. It’s a weird reaction to have for sure

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