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Moving into an apartment w a friend. Dating long distance and want my partner to stay a week once a month. Is that too often? What’s reasonable?
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Anonymous 14w

talk to your friend, but lowkey that’d be too often for me 😭

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Anonymous 14w

I think its all dependent on you. Personally i dont think so but it might be a lot in one sitting. My bf sees me once a week

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Anonymous 13w

i wouldn’t care if you and your partner were being respectful but i’d talk to your friend

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Anonymous 14w

To often? Move em in with you I try to see my gf 2 weeks out of every month

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Anonymous 12w

A week a month is crazy ngl. A weekend I could see but literally 25% of the time is too much

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Anonymous 13w

If they’re already going to be there a full quarter of the time, it seems somewhat silly for them to also pay rent somewhere else. I get having to work, but I feel like they could probably find a job closer to you that pays at least 3/4 the rate of whatever they do now. But really it’s up to you, your partner, and your friend, I don’t think you need a schedule set in stone either.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

that’s what I’m saying, at that point just figure out how to live together and save the rent

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