this is just a tautology. so yta if you peddle this to someone complaining.

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I’d say both tbh! We are shaped by our environment. However, it is up to us on how we manage it or act on it. It’s good to be sympathetic tho :)

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Both can be true

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this isnt an aita story

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Tell that to a paraplegic lmao

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This as a blanket statement misses some nuances. You don’t gotta be one or the other. Sometimes shit gets complicated.

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Only super privileged people that have never had to actually struggle say shit like this

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yeah so gonna have to put “strongly disagree” on that one pal

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No you are not the asshole

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