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This narcissist has destroyed her relationship with her sister and is also homophobic! Fork found in kitchen.
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AITA for telling my 16-year-old half-sister’s mom she was pregnant and seeking abortion in secrecy after my dad refused to get involved? (1/2)
-13 upvote, 45 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in AITA. "AITA for telling my 16-year-old half-sister’s mom she was pregnant and seeking abortion in secrecy after my dad refused to get involved? (1/2)"
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Anonymous 1d

i feel like i'm missing something, the kid didnt seem to have a bad relationship with either parent & OP tried to help or get her to open up multiple times, and she was at a serious medical risk being pregnant that young without medical supervision & also wanted an abortion. OP was 21 and secretly helping her arrange an abortion was not part of her skillset. it sounds like she ended up getting the abortion. its a shit situation but i don't really blame OP?

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Anonymous 10h

Blocked both people here because they both started being homophobic and transphobic etc. Those two can ROT.

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Anonymous 10h

Also saying this here because people are fucking slow and assume that when I say I'm nonbinary I must not know what the risk of getting pregnant feels like etc... I HAVE A UTERUS STFU YOU'RE SO IGNORANT

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Anonymous 13h

Ngl I agree with OP. That’s a teenager not an adult and an abortion is nothing to take lightly. I think you’re the evil one for the way you called her names because from her posts you can tell she genuinely cares for her sister.

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Anonymous 13h

Maybe if you weren’t “queer” you’d understand what position that is for a young woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

like idk if any of you have a sister who's 5 years younger than you but i actually do, and she's only abt a year younger than OP's sister was. if i found out she was pregnant & wasnt telling anyone, there is NO WORLD in which i hide that from my mom because i know my sister's maturity level and skills in the world and i know my own and that is BEYOND either of our scope as young people. situation is different since my family situation is different but idk i can't blame OP for seeking adult help

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

like her sister was a child. it's not the same if she was announcing shit abt a legal adult who had it all under control but this was an actively dangerous situation for a 16 year old to handle alone, and OP was not comfortable being the adult in the room. which is honestly reasonable as a 21 year old??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

First off I love you completely ignoring that she's also homophobic. Secondly, it doesn't matter her sister's age it was NOT her place to tell. She could've talked to her to try to convince her to talk to mom etc, but it was NOT her news to share. She broke her trust in a fucked up way.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

i read thru the comments and didnt see the homophobic part, maybe it got deleted or i missed it or something, what did she say?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

also "it doesn't matter her sisters age" it definitely would if she was 12! because that is a dangerous situation! i love that you care so deeply about the autonomy of young people but the fact is, 16yo wanted an abortion, neither her nor the 21yo were seemingly able to make that happen on their own, 16yo refused repeated attempts to get her to tell someone who could actually help, and had passed out in public already atp.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

what if she was experiencing a life threatening complication and OP kept silent to keep her sister's trust, and the the kid fucking died? she NEEDED medical attention, pregnancy is fucking DANGEROUS especially for younger or older women. plus she wanted an abortion & there's honestly only a limited time that's an option to you. even if you think she could have kept it a secret, calling OP a narc. for doing so when she was clearly concerned for her sisters wellbeing is so wild to me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

like at the WORST she made a mistake because she was scared for her sister and still barely an adult. that does not make her evil & i do not understand how intensely yall have accused her of doing so. & even then i honestly think she probably made the right move tbh especially if the sister did end up getting the abortion, which it sounds like she did

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

I agree. as someone with a younger sister, i’d also say something. That’s nothing to take lightly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

What a fucking psychotic thing to say to someone who grew up being called a woman no matter what they did and being treated as a FULL GROWN WOMAN when they were a child. Fucking weirdo.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

No she doesn't. If she cared for her she'd consider her feelings on sharing information that was NOT HERS TO SHARE, the potential harm and safety compromise that could've happened etc. And no, that narcissistic BITCH is evil for betraying her sisters trust and for being a transphobic homophobic pos. Gtfo.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Why are you so mad? You’re not a woman. You will not understand the risk of pregnancy nor abortion. Especially for a teenager.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

You need to calm down for one. It’s never that deep. And if you can’t take someone else’s opinion then you’re in for a rude awakening in society. OP is NTA and honestly a responsible person if you ask me - a woman ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Your comments make you look like the evil narcissist 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

whatever the hell you “identify” as, you need some mental help bro

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

So if her sister went into a medical emergency? passed out at the wrong place or had complications to her pregnancy that nobody but her sister knew about, you still stand ten toes on confidentiality. God i’d hate to have you as a close friend or sibling

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

It is that deep, and you're just as much of a demented transphobe who cannot be trusted, with children or otherwise.

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Anonymous 10h

Calm down bro 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

go fuck yourself. you're a transphobic weirdo who knows nothing about taking care of children or how to keep them safe.

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