Obviously not the asshole, you don’t owe anyone anything. Tbh just start saying no; you don’t have to justify it, just say something like “aw I’m so sorry I can’t today” and leave it at that.

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Draw those boundaries king!! I ask my friends to give me gas money occasionally or if we are going to get icecream they offer to pay for mine.

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Say something. There’s no asshole here unless your friend gets pissy when you say “ah no sorry, I can’t.” In general, don’t do something that upsets you so many times you get worked up about it. Usually the person you’re doing it for will have no idea you’re starting to get pissed off and then when you blow your top, it’ll seem like it came outta nowhere. I’ve been on both sides of that and it sucks. Communicate.

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yeah had a friend like that and she thought she was entitled smh

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