AITA on Yik Yak | I had a crush on my bestie and told her she then turned me down which was okay and then immediately after told me a guy slid into her dms. I was hurt after that and it had been a few weeks of being blown of for guys. I dont want to be friends nm. Aita?

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AITA 1d

I had a crush on my bestie and told her she then turned me down which was okay and then immediately after told me a guy slid into her dms. I was hurt after that and it had been a few weeks of being blown of for guys. I dont want to be friends nm. Aita?

Anonymous 1d

Yeah that’s kinda weird. It’s like…read the room lol. Sure, she doesn’t have to. She can do and share what she wants but I think most people who CAN read a room wouldn’t have told you. Just because you’ve admitted your feelings for her, she’s expressed that she doesn’t like you, then turns around to share another romantic interest/guy. It’s a little weird. Your feelings are valid. But idk if it’s worth ending the friendship over. Then again, I’m a stranger. So i guess do what you feel is right!

Anonymous 1d

I think you gotta accept that she only sees you as a friend bro. Ur allowed to feel hurt, but it can feel like an asshole move that you didn’t care about the friendship and that you only wanted to get with her

Anonymous 1d

I would talk to her about it. It’s possible that in her head she just wanted things to go back to normal as quickly as possible and the awkwardness is still healing for you guys. It would be totally fair if you said you don’t want to hear about her dates or anything romantic with other people for right now.

Anonymous 17h

Hi OP, I am a guy and a virgin by choice. All my guy friends vanished due to bro culture. All my friends are female and pretty. I have deeper relationships with them than their boyfriends. I showed interest to some but no strings attached nor conditions. They openly tell me their issues with men and dating experience.

Anonymous

#1 1d

I think it was more that she didn’t even give me the basic respect as a friend

Anonymous

#3 1d

^^^^

Anonymous

#2 22h

I decided to end the friendship based on her not really having any compassion for me

Anonymous

#3 22h

She said she was trying to lighten the conversation but it was rlly triggering to my body to have a rejection and discard come together

Anonymous

OP 22h

Bpd*

Anonymous

#5 17h

What I learned is that they can’t a caring guy and the guy they are with is really for pleasure. That gets old fast and they seem to be stuck in that paradigm. So when do they settle? I have been having this friendships for like 20 years and many either basically stay single due too many bad experiences or settle with someone who won’t make them happy.

Anonymous

#5 12h

So you’re still friends but harbor hard feelings?

Anonymous

OP 9h

Still friends and no hard feelings. People can choose. Hard feelings will drive them away.