NTA. at all. he’s guilt tripping you because he doesn’t want to be held accountable for his own actions

21

Nta. Break up with his ass and leave him in the dust. Addicts are so much work to deal with

7

Me and my dad went and picked him up. I was kind of upset, because I had saw him speeding in the rain prior to the accident on our Life360 but I let it go obviously just being glad he was ok. That night I had told him I had a gut feeling like he was hiding something and he reassured me he wasn’t and comforted me. The next day he had handed me his phone, and I opened his texts not thinking much about it. I saw messages to women he had been flirting with, then found more after looking in his 2/?

6

recently deleted. We fought, he said it wasn’t cheating because he had no intention on seeing the women (it was still cheating) and I sent him home (he had a rental from his insurance) I told him I needed space and stopped messaging him as much. I was trying to work through things and decide if I still wanted to talk to him when he texted me randomly yesterday and told me he “relapsed”. Now in the SIX years I’ve known him there’s never been one mention of a substance abuse issue.So I was mad 3/4

6

At the fact that he had hidden, now multiple things from me. He proceeded to tell me i was in the wrong for making him feel guilty and that I should be comforting him. AITA?

2

Yta you should be funding his hobbies

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