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wibta if i stopped responding to one of my friends messages permanently? i’ve txted them 4 separate times on 4 diff days since may29th (most recent being yesterday) & they never respond, mind u they’re ALWAYS on their phone.
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Anonymous 8w

that sounds like a really petty reason to permanently stop responding to a friend

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Anonymous 8w

I had a friend like this. It’s so annoying. It also hurts always putting in effort and getting nothing back. Nat

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Anonymous 8w

it’s mad annoying, you are not beyoncé answer the phone😭

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Anonymous 8w

Are you just sending photos? I would say yta if you cut them off entirely. Just don’t text them for a while and let them reach out to you, if this is normal for them, they may just be a bad texted but if it’s not, they may be busy or ghosting you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

v. true but this is prob the 3rd or 4th time this happened & it’s highkey annoying. i brought it to their attention be4 but they shrug it off like it’s no big deal & half of the time they only txt me if they want food or a ride, also he graduates in dec. so i’m v. likely not gonna see them again anyways😴

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

i feel like that context is much more of a reason to cut someone off lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

yeah my bad, i tried putting everything in the post but it was too long so i had to shorten it😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

it’s a mixture, in that particular photo it was mainly photos but one of the photos was an item of his, i was seeing if he still wanted it since i found it in my car while cleaning it, but in general he always does this, even if i ask him a question or something he just ghosts, then txts like a week later asking if i can give him a ride or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Don’t text first, if he asks for something say no, see if he reaches out for anything else. If he doesn’t, then you guys weren’t really friends and you handled it without ghosting him. I NEVER text my closest friends and I’m horrible at responding, but if I haven’t heard from them in a while, I’ll still reach out to see if they wanna hang

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

i ended up just deleting his contact & our msgs / i had a different friend named jaylen who dropped out last year & would leave me on read & never txted me again. if i happen to see him again & he asks y i deleted his # i’ll just tell him str8 up i thought he pulled a jaylen & that we weren’t friends anymore🤷🏽‍♂️ idc anymore

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